Moral Identity

Several years ago, a friend of mine, and Wharton School graduate, suggested that I read the work of one of his favorite professors – Adam Grant.  Since that time, I have become a fan of Professor Grant’s work.  This week, Dr. Grant wrote an opinion piece in the New York Times regarding AI and cheating.  Unfortunately, Dr. Grant wrote that of his 95 undergraduate students at Wharton, “[H]ardly any students saw cheating as a violation of integrity.”  Like Dr. Grant, I am both shocked and dismayed by this response.  Throughout my time as a student, I attended schools that took academic integrity quite seriously, and was raised to value honesty and integrity above all else.  As such, I would rather fail a test than to know that I passed because I cheated.

In Dr. Grant’s essay, he acknowledges that AI has becomes more ubiquitous, and students have become more willing to engage in “cheating”. Consequently, faculty are engaging in a cat and mouse game of trying to create ways prevent the students from cheating.  I have been a part of these conversations and like Dr. Grant, I agree that this is a fool’s errand.  As he states, “[C]reating obstacles is never going to be enough.”  Instead, he argues that the way forward is to focus less on outcomes and more on process.  As Dr. Grant puts it – “What we achieve may define our success. How we achieve it determines our character.”

Tomorrow, the faculty of The Beech Hill School will meet to begin preparation for a new school year.  We will spend considerable amounts of time discussing AI and academic integrity, as well as things like the changes to the Dress Code and student use of computers during “free time.”  Throughout these conversations, we understand that at BHS, we engage deeply in helping our students to form, what Dr. Grant calls moral identities – or “the term psychologists use for caring deeply about being a person of honor and integrity.”  This is not easy work, and many schools shy away from these endeavors.  As we prepare for the year ahead at BHS, we realize that moral development is a key component of our mission and more important than ever.

FORE!

For several summers now, I have spent the majority of my “free” time traveling about with my kids, transporting them to their various athletic endeavors.  This summer, however, I have generally moved past that, and I am beginning to reclaim time for my endeavors.  This summer, my most enjoyable endeavor has been golfing.  I am what is referred to as a “high handicapper,” which is a euphemism for “generally bad golfer.”  But I really love to play and this summer I have played with greater frequency than at any other point in my life.

One of the things that I especially like about playing golf is the optimism of a new round.  Every time I play, I am excited for the opportunity to achieve new feats, and who knows – perhaps I will even hit that elusive hole in one.  The blank score card and the first tee always excites me.

The other day, as I was preparing to tee off, I realized that the enthusiasm and excitement that comes with a new round of golf is similar to the feelings I have about a new school year.  For over 30 years, I have readied myself to “tee it up” around August 1st.   All these years later, I am still excited, hopeful, and a bit nervous, to start a “new round.”  Hopefully, the students are also beginning to feel those feelings as well!

Before I put my clubs away, I still will have a chance to take my swings out on the links – but it won’t be long until it is time to grab my tie and blazer for another “18 holes” at BHS.  I am as excited as ever – I can feel a great round coming!

Experience the World

In this modern, interconnected world, one might imagine that the world is becoming more homogeneous.  Even those that physically don’t move within miles of their home, through movies, the internet, and all sorts of technology have the ability to interact with people that are far from their locale.  In the last three months I have had the great opportunity to travel to different regions of The United States, and from my perspective, despite technology, this country is still incredibly diverse.

Recently, my wife and I walked along the beach outside of Los Angeles, and time and again, people would greet us, by asking where we were from.  Whether it was our clothing, our demeanor, or any of a million things, it was clear that we differed from the “Locals.”  Likewise, while visiting my son in rural Virginia, it is self-evident that this country is far from homogenous.

While I could read books, watch movies, or do any of a number of things to try to understand what it might be like to live in Manhattan Beach, California, the experience of spending a few hours walking around has been the best instructor.

I am grateful that I have the ability to travel and I believe that all these journeys have helped me to think more deeply about the world in which we live.  At The Beech Hill School, we try to bring students on regional field trips and welcome a variety of guests to our campus.  Before long, however, it is my hope that we can arrange travel opportunities for our students, so that they too can experience for themselves the incredibly diverse and wonderful world in which we live. 

Decision Day

March 10th – If you are not the parent of an 8th grader, March 10th is a day like any other.  If, however, you are an 8th grader or the parent of an 8th grader that has applied to an independent secondary school, then you understand that March 10th is “Decision Day.”  That is, Mach 10th is the day that most independent high schools announce their admission decisions.  Over the years, this has started to change, as more schools are engaging in rolling admission; but for many of our families, this coming Tuesday will be a stressful one.  I know, as I went through “Decision Day” with both of my children.

As Head of School, however, I am less anxious, as I am confident that The Beech Hill School goes to great lengths to help those students and families that are interested in exploring their post-BHS options.  In the fall, we welcomed almost 20 high schools to our annual school fair, and in our Skills classes, all 8th Grade students spent time considering what they were seeking in a high school.  Likewise, as early as the 7th Grade spring, all students learn how to take standardized tests, like the SSAT.  In addition, all parents can work one-on-one with me in considering the possible pathway ahead for their child.   By the time that students are in the application process, they should have a high degree of confidence that the schools to which they are applying are a good fit.  Historically, BHS students have had great success in the application process.

Of course, no matter how confident one might be that they have applied to a school that is the perfect fit, and that they have taken all the steps necessary to make their application stand-out – nothing in life is certain.  And it is that uncertainty that makes Tuesday a challenging day for our students and families.  As such, I wish our students and families the best of luck this Tuesday.

More Perfect

On Monday, we will gather to celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.  Like almost all holidays, most folks have the day off from other obligations to celebrate as they see fit.  When living in the mid-Atlantic region, however, I witnessed the way in which others actively honor Dr. King through service, community gatherings and what were referred to as a “Day On” as opposed to a day off.  At BHS, we have adopted this active celebration, as the work of our nation, of Dr. King, and The Beech Hill School are in almost perfect alignment.

In the preamble to the Constitution, its purpose is clearly stated as to “form a more perfect union.”  This is a call to action – in perpetuity, for the people of the United States to work to make our union more perfect.  This idea is clearly aspirational for our nation.  Dr. King shared his aspirational optimism in his “I Have a Dream” speech – in so far as he acknowledges that his current reality did not reflect the realities he hoped for his progeny.  At The Beech Hill School, one of the core ideals in our Foundations of Community is “aspiration,” confirming our understanding that, individually and collectively, it is always possible to make improvements.

So, The Constitution, Dr. King, and The Beech Hill School are all optimistic that we can, through active and thoughtful work, become better versions of ourselves, and in turn, of our communities.  That work is never fully complete, but tomorrow we will remind ourselves of Dr. King’s work and his hopes of a beloved community.  Hopefully, with our continued efforts, we can get that much closer to “more perfect.”